Let us say you turn to your spouse and ask him\/her about something. But it is not the best time to talk. Right there the communication attempt collapses. Before it even starts. Some of us will take that personally and have the most horrible ideas ever. That itself will affect the relationship negatively and it will not stop there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Possibly there will be an argument later on. ” WHY YOU IGNORED ME EARLIER “. But wait, wouldn’t it be better if we instead of wrongly interpreting the other party’s desires to communicate, could postpone the “let’s talk” for a little while? And later have an effective and successful communicating attempt? I can be wrong. But ask yourself when was the last time you blamed yourself and not the other party for a failed communication attempt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Having a well-built communication circle always starts with working on ourselves. Instead of expecting the other party to positively react to our communication style. We should consider the differences in personalities and current frames of mind when expecting a positive reaction to our attempt to communicate with others. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Jordan B Peterson said once ” Each of us is a remarkable creature, and we have something to offer to the people we love and it is our responsibility to make that manifest.”<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Having something to offer to our loved ones should always start with the fact that they can communicate with us anytime they want. Isn’t that what we owe to our loved ones at least? Aren’t we supposed to eliminate the smallest chance to start unnecessary arguments with our loved ones? The consequences could be enormous and sometimes hard to contain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Only the smallest minds would expect others to go on with whatever style of communication they follow. Undermining the temper of the other party, but only great minds will have ideas on how to work on their communication styles and approaches. Be mindful of the other party’s state of mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is not a solution offering for you on how to communicate with others. It may make you ask yourself questions that will allow you to build, trust and create a healthy environment for better ideas and solving conflicts. It can let you discover new ways to better understand people<\/a> and their current situations when trying to communicate.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" The word communication could have a different meaning from one individual to another. Some of us will define it as a way to deliver messages to other people, others will say it is to physically…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":75,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","WB4WB4WP_MODE":"","WB4WP_PAGE_SCRIPTS":"","WB4WP_PAGE_STYLES":"","WB4WP_PAGE_FONTS":"","WB4WP_PAGE_HEADER":"","WB4WP_PAGE_FOOTER":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-communication"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":435,"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60\/revisions\/435"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/ismailalaraimi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/argument-ge11ca852c_1280-1024x694.png\")
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